If you do not have one man consistently available as a role model, point out examples of good behavior, kindness, and concern. By pointing out these positive qualities in men, you are guiding your son to become the man you want him to be. These men don’t have to be someone special like a Cub Scout leader, Big Brother, or a teacher. Your son will have sports and celebrity heroes. These men are often not the best of role models, but you can certainly share your son’s admiration for their athletic ability, talent, and success. The more important experiences will come from men you meet every day. When you see a man doing something you admire, even if you don’t know him, point it out to your son. These do not have to be huge things. Remember it is always the little things that count. For example, if a male clerk in a store goes out of his way to carry a package, mention how much you respect men who help others without being asked. When you see examples of good sportsmanship or a terrific sense of humor, say so. Talk positively of male friends at work. Try to include men in your lives as friends. Invite these friends to your home and let him have the opportunity to see men doing “guy things” like watching sports on TV or eating a home cooked meal without mentioning calories or fat content.